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Rejection isn’t just painful. It’s primal. Rejection doesn’t just stings, shatters.
Because it doesn’t hit the surface. It hits the soul.

We’re wired to belong. So when someone ghosts us, criticises us, or pulls away, it feels like proof that we’re not enough. And the plot twist? We start believing it. We turn the rejection inward.

We contort ourselves to fit in, chase validation, silence our instincts—just to be accepted.
And still, we feel like outsiders in our own lives.

But what if rejection isn’t the problem?
What if it’s a brutal but necessary calling, to realign?

Stop shrinking, stop performing, and stop confusing approval with worth.
You don’t need a seat at someone else’s table. You can dine from your own.

Let’s become creators of lives we dream of and re-write our rules.
Not for them. For us. For YOURself.

Rejection doesn’t just sting—it shatters. It doesn’t just hit the surface. It hits the soul.

We’re wired to belong. So when someone ghosts us, criticises us, or pulls away, it feels like proof that we’re not enough.
And the plot twist? We start believing it. We turn the rejection inward.

We contort ourselves to fit in, chase validation, silence our instincts—just to be accepted.
And still, we feel like outsiders in our own lives.

But what if rejection isn’t the end all?
What if it’s a brutal yet urgent calling to realign?

This article is a call to stop shrinking, stop performing, and stop confusing approval with worth.
You don’t need a seat at someone else’s table. Dine at your own!

Let’s rewrite our stars and become creators of the lives we dream of and deserve.

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